That’s dang near the whole post in the title.
I had an avoidable moment of panic because there were too many voices in my head. I talk to much. That is not news here.
It’s a process. But I’m gonna try harder.
People may have good intentions. But they may not be the best thing for you.
People speak from their perspective and how they have or would handle you. Though we go through similar things, there’s no one size fits all.
The advice I need to take is this: talk to someone who is where you are trying to go. Two fools talking is gonna result in foolishness. If the advice giver isn’t someone you want to emulate, why take their advice?